Things No One Taught Us About Love

Things No One Taught Us About Love explores the realities of modern relationships and the inner work needed to build lasting connection. Vex King explains that love is not about losing yourself in another person or expecting someone else to fix loneliness, insecurity, or past pain. Instead, he encourages readers to strengthen self-respect, understand emotional needs, communicate honestly, recognize unhealthy patterns, and establish clear boundaries. Through reflections, relatable examples, and practical exercises, the book addresses self-love, attachment, expectations, vulnerability, compatibility, breakups, relationship habits, and personal growth. It is designed for readers who want to improve romantic relationships, friendships, family relationships, and their most important relationship: the one they have with themselves. The paperback edition is published by Bluebird/Pan Macmillan and contains 320 pages.